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Breaking The Need to Be Liked By Everyone : The Kryptonite of Needing To Be Liked

Superman was invincible to everything but kryptonite, the alien super mineral could deprive superman of his power in exposing his weakness. My kryptonite was the need to be liked in being fully accepted by everyone in making everyone happy. My divorce in ending an eleven year marriage opened me to transparently look into my life…

My Favorite Protective Styles

I adore wearing my 4C natural hair in a low TWA ( teeny weeny afro) in a variety of styles. There are also seasons where I want to give my tresses a needed break in wearing protective styles to give my hair a rest. I usually wear a protective style anywhere between two to nine…

A Few Things To Consider Before Doing The BIG Chop!

I’ve had several big chops in my life in wearing many short styles from relaxed to natural. I love experimenting with various hair styles with color, braids, wigs, and extensions occasionally, but wearing my hair short in it’s natural texture is my go to for my personal style. I prefer the low maintenance of short…

Dear Younger Self : Life Mid 30’s

I’m in my mid 30’s, and I take nothing back in living a life dwelling on regrets, yet I’ve learned so many lessons from life experiences that I sometimes wish I could share to my younger self. I would give that fragile soul a big warm hug sharing with her that she’s going to be…